How Many Piano Lessons Per Week Should You Have?

Sometimes, after seeing their child super-enthused about their lessons, parents ask me if we should do more than one lesson during the week.  My answer: It depends.

Here is my quick answer:

1) If the student practices correctly throughout the week on a daily basis and does not master the material within a few days of the lesson, one lesson is enough per week.

However,

1) If your student is very young and tends to forget everything the next day (especially if there is no parent to work with them on a daily basis and practice together),
2) If you have difficulty enforcing regular practice,
3) If the student practices so much that they finish their assignment and get bored after 2 days,
4) If the lessons are not long enough to cover theory, duets, etc. because the student's attention span doesn't last past 30 minutes
5) If the student does not pay attention to correct technique and practices incorrectly all week
6) If you're in a rush to learn quickly

then a second lesson would greatly benefit the student.

From my observation in my daily teaching, these are the general reasons for my recommendations:

1) In the ideal situation, enough material can be covered during the lesson to challenge the student for the whole week with daily practice of 30 minutes to 1 hr.  But given that piano lessons tend to be shorter these days (30 minutes), we often don't cover enough for the students that really practice that much.  Also, in the ideal situation the student heeds the teachers pointers and advice on how to practice correctly with correct technique. I would rather a student not practice at all rather than practice the wrong way!

2) Some students just have a hard time absorbing everything in one 30 minute lesson. The younger students especially seem to wipe their memory clean the moment they get out of a lesson and on to the next activity. It helps if a parent is knowledgeable about the piano and can sit with the student every day and remind them of what was covered during the lesson and help them practice.

3) Many parents have a lot of difficulty enforcing daily practice of 20 minutes or more. If your student doesn't practice during the week, they completely make no progress by the next lesson and we end up using another lesson reviewing the same material.  It almost makes more sense to just schedule an extra lesson or two during the week that you may consider as "supervised practice".  Otherwise the parents rarely get to enjoy any return on the tuition they have paid for the weekly lessons.

4)  With young students, 3 days practice can mean quite a lot of progress and having lessons twice a week really keep things moving along. I find it works really well with a highly motivated child that practices so much that they finish everything I assign within a couple of days and are at risk of getting bored and losing motivation. 

5)  Often, we limit lessons to 30 minutes because the student's productive attention span doesn't last that long.  Unfortunately this does not give us enough time to go over technique, finger exercises, theory, duets, rhythm study, etc. I feel like many times my students are getting half the education I received because I can't possibly fit everything into 30 minutes. For this reason, I really do wish my 30 minutes students had lessons twice a week.  Students with 1 hour lessons don't encounter this problem.

6) Many students don't really pay attention to HOW they should practice and are often a bit on the lazy side when it comes to correct technique which is the utter backbone of playing an instrument. I don't have this problem with adult students because the understand the importance of moving their fingers and wrist and all that the way I tell them too. Kids, on the other hand, don't really understand or care and often don't want to suffer through training their hands physically to play correctly. In this case, extra lessons can prevent bad habits or incorrect playing. Imagine if the student is playing something incorrectly. It would be better if the mistake was pointed out after half a week instead of after one full week.

7) Some students are in a rush to learn quickly, for whatever reason. Since I have observed that more lessons almost always equal faster progress, in this case I would also recommend extra lessons. However, if no one is in a rush and just enjoying the experience of learning piano, there is no need for extra lessons.

Kids & Self-Discipline...They Need YOUR Help

People often mistake motivation for self-discipline. They believe motivation can keep you going for a long time toward their goals and are very disappointed when it doesn't. Motivation is the ignition, not the fuel in your engine. Your fuel is self-discipline, something that you do without questioning. The moment you start to question whether to do something difficult or not, there is a 90% likelihood you won't. This is precisely why a routine is important! I know that I absolutely hate the process of showering, doing my make-up and my hair every morning. Honestly, it is pure torture for me! But I do it every day without fail only because I have developed a habit and it is not a daily DECISION for me anymore. I just do it because I always do it.

Many kids start lessons (not just piano) because they enjoy music or think it would be so awesome to be able to play their favorite songs themselves. However, in order get to this goal of playing for fun, students need to practice regularly. And practicing, by definition, means that the student works on the pieces that are difficult, not the ones that they already know well. When a student sits down and plays the songs they already know, that is called playing for fun--which is the goal that we are trying to reach! :D

Unfortunately, self-discipline is not something kids are born with. Period.

Now, maybe there is that 1 in 1000 kid that loves to practice the challenging parts (I know I wasn't one of them!) but the rest absolutely hate it! That is normal, and unfortunately we can't cure normal. Kids don't have the long-term view of life to understand that sacrifices now lead to great things later for them to enjoy (playing songs they want to play). Therefore, kids have a very hard time with self-discipline unless they get guidance from parents who help them set up routines.

Parents must help their kids in the same way whether it be for piano lessons, homework or sports. Studies show that it takes about 2 weeks to develop a habit of doing something without questioning it. Therefore, I suggest that parents take 2 weeks and enforce a practice schedule, even for just 5-10 minutes every day. Use of primary reinforcers (rewarding the student with a treat for complying with the schedule) will help navigate through complaining, whining and tantruming if that is an issue. At the end of 2 weeks, most parents will be pleasantly surprised that the kids sit down to practice without being asked, or with minimal reminders.

Of course, some students might not have that extra time in their schedule to devote to practicing. In this case, I would highly suggest that they post-pone taking lessons (whether an instrument or sport) until they have the time (even 10 minutes) every day to practice. When kids don't progress at an activity, they start to become bored, discouraged and even resentful! Many people think that making the kids practice will make them resentful to the activity, but on the contrary, they become more resentful when they don't seem to be getting anywhere. There are some students that make progress even just from weekly lesson and in that case, I would say it is ok to continue with lessons because they kids are happy with the goals they are reaching slowly but surely. In the end, what we want is for them to have a sense of achievement and the ability to play things that they enjoy.

Teaching the Littlest Ones...

Perhaps my favorite part of teaching piano is the time when I teach the littlest ones...mostly under five years old. They are so positive, curious and fearless...and not to mention so cute!! One of my little students can't even pronounce my name correctly but he memorizes a little song by heart almost every week "just for teacher." And he just turned four.

Another little one, also four, pushes on relentlessly to new materials. When I suggest that we stop for the day, he pouts and begs to try one more harder new song. How different from all of us adults!

One really amazing thing to watch as a teacher of that age group is how quickly their brains evolve from month to month, even week to week! When they are very young, their brain is developing at a fantastic speed so, as a teacher, I can see amazing leaps in skill and ability to comprehend concepts that are being taught.

One tip for teachers that are just beginning to venture into the "under 5" age group is not to pressure the students to absorb every concept like notes, rythm, technique, fingering, etc. Take one thing to concentrate on and let the kid enjoy the learning process. Make it easy for a while and be patient because soon you will be amazed when the child lets you know that he is ready for something more challenging. Let the individual development of each child guide you, rather than you trying to keep the kid "on track." There is time...a lot of time actually...for them to learn. It's important not to spoil that initial introduction by giving too much challenge and too many demands. For example, I had one little student whose parents thought I was being too leniant, but trusting my instinct and experience, I allowed the little one to move at snail's pace, repeating the same songs over and over for months. Then one day I noticed he was speaking in more intelligent sentences and so I had the idea to give him a little challenge. He immediately

comprehended what I was trying to teach because he had such a solid base in the material we have been using for months and his brain had developed enough to understand more complicated concepts. And more importantly, the rather long easy-going beginning allowed him to become attached to the piano without the negativity of failure and so for him piano continued to be a fun activity, even as I raised the difficulty level bit by bit.

In my opinion it is very important to prime the child's brain correctly from the beginning so that the activity doesn't become a dreaded chore. I truly recommend this approach if you are hoping for your child/student will continue with piano playing joyfully...

Get Your Kids to Practice Piano with the Practice Raffle!

Parents often complain to me that their children won’t listen to them when they ask them to practice.  It is a very common complaint among most parents whose children are taking music lessons, such as piano.  It is especially true with youngsters who are not yet aware of the need for regular practice in order to reach their musical goals. 

Parents feel that they don’t have the outside authority factor like the piano teacher and therefore their kids don’t listen to them because the request to practice is lumped in with all the other requests to do homework, chores, etc. and the kids don’t really take them seriously. It may sound funny, but some parents have actually asked me if I would mind calling the student a few times a week to remind them to practice because they would actually do it if I asked them.  However, this is definitely not a practical suggestion for any family or piano teacher.

Many modern parents also want their children to enjoy piano lessons and only practice because they want to.  Indeed, it is ideal that the children have a positive experience with piano lessons (or any music lessons) and not suffer the guilt trips that put such a negative light on any lessons they take. However, we all know that when given the choice, kids more often choose to play their new Wii rather than practice, no matter how much they say they love to play piano.

Therefore, in order to find an answer to this problem, we have to think like the kids and think of fun incentives that will reward them as well as get them to practice.  Here is just one idea that has worked with many young students and may work with yours:

The Practice Raffle

 Materials Needed:

-Shoe box

-Construction paper and other decorative materials

 Instructions:

 Make a slit on the top of the shoe box so you can put pieces of papers inside.  Have the student decorate the box so that it’s special for them. You must also cut out pieces of paper of the same shape, like tickets.

Now, every time that the student practices a certain amount of time (5, 10, 15 minutes depending on the child’s age and ability to focus at the piano) they get a ticket and they write their name on it and put it in the box. 

Every time you, the parent, asks them to practice and they don’t, you put your name on a ticket and put it in the box. I think you know where this is leading….

At the end of a specified time agreed by all (maybe once a week or once a month), the family gets together and holds a raffle for a prize (such as candy or something else that you know will motivate your child).  Obviously, the more the students practice, the better chance they have of winning. But the more times they refuse to practice, they have a great chance of losing. This works even better when there are multiple students in one family because it is more fun for more people to compete. Also, because one student’s refusal to practice can negatively impact their brother and sister’s chances of winning since the parents put “parent” tickets into the same box, the brothers and sisters will have an incentive to encourage each other to practice when a parent requests it.

I recommend smaller prizes such as candy and weekly raffles for smaller children because they are a little less patient than older students. This game may even work with teens if everyone agrees to bigger prizes such as movie tickets, etc. and less frequently raffles (monthly). The key is to give the kids incentives to practice, rather than just waiting to reward them once they finally learn a song because it takes some longer than others and practicing actually increases other useful skills such as patience, self-discipline, hard work, etc. Why reward a student when they learn a song with barely any effort?  This method can also be used for a wide range of activities that parents must nag their kids about, whether it’s homework, exercise, chores, etc.